One of the most trying experiences for parents is taking young children shopping, especially to the supermarket. But it can also teach your child one of life’s valuable lessons: money doesn’t grow on trees.
(Photo by Elaine Perez, Bravo Supermarket)
In fact, the first time you strap baby into a backpack for a trip to the supermarket is just about the right time to be aware that your child is entering, or at least observing, the world of commerce. Babies are keenly observant, and, as strange as it may seem, even the youngest child may be learning about consumerism from you and your actions.
(Photo by Elaine Perez, Bravo Supermarket)
While children will get early lessons in nutrition from the choices you make when food shopping, that won’t be the only issue that comes up. Learning that money is valuable resource involving decision-making and trade-offs is an important lesson for children. Parents need to teach children that they can’t have everything they see or want.
But what can a parent do when her child is screaming in the checkout line? Children quickly learn techniques to get what they want. In a supermarket and other stores, having a temper tantrum is one technique that often works with distraught parents. Giving in, though, is a mistake. Here are some tips for shopping with kids:
- Avoid shopping when stories are likely to be crowded and hectic. Pick off-peak times to shop at the supermarket or mall. Try to shop close to home in order to reduce travel time that can test a child’s overall patience.
- Be consistent. If you decided not to buy candy, stick to that decision. The child may cry, scream or try other tactics to persuade you. Don’t give in. And don’t worry about being embarrassed. Other parents will know hat is going and will likely sympathize with you. Eventually the child will learn that this technique doesn’t work and give it up, but parents must be firm and consistent.
- Bring along some special items or playthings that can amuse or comfort a child while shopping. Pack a favorite blanket, to or book to help him feel secure. Bring a nutritious snack like crackers, cereal or grapes.
- Keep the shopping trip short. Don’t test a child patience or attention span. You can make shopping more efficient by writing a list, clipping coupons in advance and knowing the store layout so you shop aisle by asisle.
- If your supermarket has checkout lanes that do not display candy, try using those lanes to prevent last-minute temptations and scenes.
For additional information, please check out the following link:
Cornell Cooperative Extension/Shopping with Children
http://tioga.cce.cornell.edu/nutrition/shopping-with-children